About Me

Kanpur, Allahabad, Gwalior,Kolkata , India
hello every1... I am Arpita Sharma, frnz use to call me avani.Brief intro of mine is here ;);) writer by choice, engineer by destiny, philanthropist by nature bt narcissist by habit :P ;) photographer in my never dying dreams ;) ;) damn talkative bt still unknown to known people... :) :) In a nut shell u can defined me as- Far From The 'MOODY CROWD', Anyway Its A Mad Mad Mad World.....


Saturday, October 18, 2014


A part of me wants an Answer,
but a part of me
doesn't want to know.
A part of me 
wants to keep holding on
a part of me 
wants to let you go.
Things may change,
People may change,
Seasons may change,
Colours may change,
What will remain in my heart is-
Another Me, Who is YOU!!!!!!

Wednesday, December 25, 2013


I am still confused how to start writing again which i have stopped in 2011. Last post was given by me was in 2011, Aug, 9th.And 25th December 2013 it is.. n i have jus decided to write again. may be its just a random thought came into my mind but yaa i have decided..
The story i am gonna narrate in front of you all  you is real..

It was 2010 when i came across the book named The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. From that day i wish to buy that book from the core of my heart. but failed because of its price but yaa i don't know whenever any book of the series of Rhonda Byrne came in front of me in any mode i just wish i could buy it someday.. days passed, months passed, years passed n finally one day i was just passing my time on Facebook when i came across the event named https://www.facebook.com/LivingTheSecret
i just simply go through it but not at all taken it seriously... then after the writer and the owner of event Mohit Tahiliani changed the name of event as  - "Send me your email-id's to get Free GiveAways The Best Books on Law of Attraction." I still not too much serious about what was happening coz i never thought that somebody can created d exact event what i was longing from 2010... again Mohit mailed many of us for confirming our respective mail id's still i was not at all sure about this then after the day came, Dec 24th 2013 the Christmas Eve when i got a mail from Mohit Tahiliani which stated

Hello Beautiful People,
Merry Christmas to all of you. On behalf of Living the Secret, I wish you all a Christmas full of joy, love, happiness :)
Here is your 1st Christmas gift. PFA "The Secret" book.
You will get your remaining books soon. :) Keep celebrating till then. Good Bye.
Mohit Tahiliani
"Living the Secret"

and i was shocked !!!!! It happens in real.. :) and then again one mail which contains the set of 3 E-books- "The Magic, The Hero, Science of getting Rich & Master Key System" .
 i was so happy after seeing his mail.. n then i came to know the truth if u truely wish anything then it will turned into reality for sure. :) thanks Mohit Tahiliani for becoming the Santa of my life (2013) :) 

P.S.- This post is just the restart of my writing n d gratitude towards the one who fulfills my dream. all i could say is never fail to show your feelings to someone if someway they have affected your life in anyway :) 


Friday, August 3, 2012


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Saturday, March 31, 2012

Friday, September 9, 2011

खुदा की मोहब्बत

खुदा ने हमे ज़िन्दगी बख्शी, और ग़मों के जेवरात पहनाये |
कौन कहता है उसे हमसे मोहब्बत नहीं ||

p.s.- This is the first guest post to my blog.These two lines have been written by my friend AVANISH KUMAR.He is an awesome writer and poet. I am I am obliged to place them in my blog.

p.p.s- I don't know whether any comments are given to this post or not but from my deep core of heart i really thanks AVANISH to feel my blog as a worthy place where he can put his thoughts preserved.Thanks AVANISH fr my first guest post.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Coffee Mug

3:00 A.M.

I wake up at 2:50 A.M. just 10 min before writing this article. I prepared cold coffee for me so that i can fight the battle against 'neend' (the biggest 'dushman' of my student life, just joking 'coz neend is the only one with whom i use to fall in love again n again.. :P )

When I was preparing the coffee suddenly I saw a CUP given by my friend cum room mate during my B.Tech days....Wow such a lovely cup it is..

Description of CUP : It's made up of glass fitted in steel body (just to give a designer look..)
                                 (agar yeh cup koi dress hota toh may be amongst the choicest collection of Ritu Beri or Manish Mehlotra..)

Description of my roomy : It's a bad manner to describe any girl publicly like this :P :P :P 
(just joking...)
In simple words--- 'JAMWANT' (story behind this name is very comic. may be shared with you all in one of my coming posts..) 

CUP's Owner : The great girl named 'APPY' (main hi hun yaar.. don't get confused ! !)
                       (  [Huge round of applauds.. :-) :-) :P :P ] now itz ok ....stop clapping guys. )
when she was giving me that designer cup then i felt like the winner of olympics or any mega international event, who get a cup after winning any race or task... :P :P :P

aahhh!!! How much happy I was after receiving such an honourable cup given by such an intelligent girl-my roommate....(i use 'such' word twice coz both CUP and JAMWANT are like a prashaad in my life one given by 2nd and 2nd given by destiny... :P :P :P)

+VE points of Coffee Mug :
  • It reminds me my those happy, loving days of B.Tech life         :-) :-) :-)
  • To make me feel proud to be an owner of such a valued cup :P :P :P
  • Invoke me to enjoy coffee more n more...
  • last but not least----- remind me the intelligence of my room mate.
How much brain she has.. 'coz before buying this esteemed cup atleast this much brain she applied ki-
'yeh le leti hun appy ke kaam bhi aayegaa and fir jate-2 ek yaad bhi ho jaygi..'
('and' k baad waali line confirm nai hai but 'and' se pehle sab kuch ekdm confirm hai..)

now come to the main topic...
I have penned this article just to strengthens the bond of friendship b/w the two...which is immortal i.e.--
Loving friendship of CUP & COFFEE..
I pray Almighty to keep on blessing both of them like this only..
(so that i can enjoy more n more coffee like this and concentrate on my studies..) :P :P :P

I am sorry GOD 'coz abhi toh maine un dono ko alag kar diyaa hai. (coffee pee gayi, ab cup toh khaa nahi jati na.... :P :P :P)

Here I am leaving, back to studies.... :-) :-) :-)

P.S. - may be this post is a result of excessive workload on me :-) :P

P.P.S. - As we go about our busy schedule in life, we often forget that there is more along the way than just bills to pay, phone calls to attend to and return, and hundred errands to run, and let life carry us away on an endless road filled with many responsibilities. So, take some time out for yourself and pursue all your interests, for life is meant to be lived and enjoyed fully, each day in the best of ways. (these lines are taken frm ARCHIES bookmark.)

Friday, August 5, 2011


One who wants success in his undertaking should honour and consult the following :

A man of Experience;
A man of Knowledge;
A man of Wisdom;
A man of Virtue; and
A reliable friend.
P.S.- This quote has been taken from a great hindu epic 'MAHABHARATA'.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011


Long long ago...
there was a couple 
both were opposite
but made for each other.....

A day came
[By moon sign]
 Respect and Love...
 conquered each other..

An Angel came.....
A baby boy....
A parcel from the GOD
Wrapped in the cloth of Love

Lovely his gestures as lovely his name... :-)
This is how a baby boy came...... :-)

(my greetings to the parents of baby boy)

Hours passes....
Days passes.....
Months gone....
Years arrived...
Soon it turns into atwice decades....
A day arrive
I don't know him,
I haven't met with his GODS(Parents)
I have no idea what he is
But i know this..........
Circumstances change.....
Things change.....
 Life changes.....
 but what not change is.....

A never dying smile of Birthday Boy.....
The deep rooted innosence of  Birthday Boy.....(only known by his mother)
The love for his toys.....(nw exchanged with gadgets)
The punctuality of a Birthday Boy.....(School to Office)

                                                                            AAJ BHI....
He loves his maggie more than his phone talks.....
Use to sleep before 12 like he used to do at the age of 12
He is 24 but still do mistakes like 2+4

This is how life changes.....
Everything changes..... 
But what not change is....

 P.S.- This article is dedicated to 'Birthday Boy' :P :-) :P :-) :P

Sunday, July 10, 2011

A FRESH START..........

Hello Everybody...
I want to say something....
Please forgive me every body.. I am saying this cz due to many reasons i was not making up myself to feel the strength of myself n feel the love and affection everyone has given me..
when i was a kid i read a tag line written by Munshi Premchan"Misfortune Never Comes Alone." may be unknowingly i was more into that FATE-FORTUNE things..
I know at one phase of life it matters but it doesn't mean that each n every phase is the result of the fate...
So i have decided something...and i want to share this with u my loving readers..

1) Decided to forget al my past grudges with everyone..cz i knw ki neither i can change the past nor they r going to be a part of my future. !!!!! Then why should i take tension?.....

2) and haan insisted of sticking to ur past itz better to move on...cz at some phase of life i have to move on..and itz foolishness to wait for that 'Some' time.

3) My life is not only mine.. I am the hope of my family hw can i forget this thing for my own liking???

4) Instead of depending on someone itz better to step forward.Coz that 'someone' is also a part of his/her family.....

5)I love to be loved..so stay happy and spread happiness..!!!!

6)STOP TALKING ON PHONE...........i have read a book 'Who will cry when u die' by Robin.S.Sharma and frm there i have learnt that-'Itz not necessary to pick up the phone everytime it rings !!'.Now itz time to implement this in my life..

7)STOP SLEEPING UNNECESSARY  !!!!!!!!(bada hi kathin kaam hai mere liye bt i'll lessen my sleeping hours   :-) )

8)Exercise daily to saty fit......:-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

9)Instead of wasting my time in 'faltoo kam' i decided to concentrate on the things which can help me in my future.

10)Stop blaming on my destiny...I know that at some phase of life each and every person is influenced by FATE-FORTUNE concept.but it doesn't mean that one should waste his/her beautiful present for the sake of his/her unpleasent past...

11)Stop being nostalgic all the time...I know that i am suffering frm disease named nostalgia but dis is not done in such a cute age of 21...after all itz the symbol of 40's......

12)I again fall in love with Arpita Sharma(myself) again.I know due to some reasons i forgot myself totally, may be i was busy in the inspection of others and fail to do introspection of mine...:-( 
but now onwards.. 'love everyone but never forget that at some stage u have to pay the price to yourself for all the tears that came into ur eyes.'

13)Itz lovely to be with friends those who can understand you and gives you right suggestions.......That's the one reason i find myself secure in my this small and never dying world usually famous as-BLOG.

14)Be consistent to the path you have choosen for you..Itz only you who can change your destiny..and remember always...Good things happen to the good people only.........    :-)

15) "If the path is beautiful, first confirm where it leads. But, if the destination is beautiful, don't bother how the path is....just move on...." itz a simple msg sent by my brother manas milind pratap singh....
although itz a message but gives a huge inspiration and optimism towards life and your goal...

P.S.- I know my this post seems to be a stupid activity from myside, but i can't explain anyone how much necessary it is for me to share all these things vd u frnz..I gather lotz n lotz of courage to post this feeling infront of my frnz cum counselors...I hope after reading this +ve feedbacks will be given to me..

I would like to share a video with you people..this is something very close to my heart and give real source of inspiration........
(I have seen this video first time at college auditorium by INFOSYS hr.)
 tkcr everyone..may GOD bless u all...